Before Labor

            I prefer to meet with you and your partner at least once before labor.  This prenatal visit allows us to become acquainted, to explore and discuss your priorities, fears and concerns about labor, and to plan how we might work best together.  During this meeting I will want to become familiar with your birth plan, including your preferences for managing your labor and the use of pain medications.  I also would like to know how you foresee yourself coping with pain and fatigue, and how you and your partner anticipate working together during labor. 

            We may decide to plan additional meetings before labor, but if not we will remain in touch by telephone in the last few weeks of your pregnancy.  I am available to you to answer questions and provide support during these last weeks of your pregnancy as well.

 

After the baby is born

            I usually remain with you for one to two hours after the baby is born, until you are comfortable and your family is ready for quiet time together.  I can also help with initial breastfeeding, if necessary.

            I am available for phone contact to answer questions about the birth or your baby.  I would also like to get together with you about two to three weeks after you baby’s birth to see how you are doing, to review the birth, to admire your baby, and to get feedback from you about my role.

 

What I do not do

As a doula, I do not:

·         Perform clinical tasks, such as blood pressure, fetal heart checks, vaginal exams, and others.  I am there to provide physical comfort, emotional and informational support, and advocacy in a non-clinical role.

·         Make decisions for you.  I will help you get the information necessary to make an informed decision.  I will also remind you if there is a departure from your birth plan.

·         Speak to the staff instead of you regarding matters where decisions are being made.  I will discuss your concerns with you and suggest options, but you or your partner will speak on your behalf to the clinical staff.